YOU HAVE FRIENDS.
BUT NOT LIKE THIS.
 A Monthly Gathering for Visionary WomenÂ
SANCTUARY.
A monthly gathering for visionary women who are done performing and ready to remember.
We don't give you answers. We create the conditions where your own truth becomes undeniable.
Sanctuary is a live, 90-minute gathering every month. Breathwork, reflection, real conversation, and a community of women who meet you at depth. Built around three foundations — Relational Longevity, Soul-Aligned Prosperity, and Embodied Coherence — and designed to return you to your own internal authority.
You leave each gathering more like yourself. Clearer in what you want. Surer of what is true. Grounded in knowing you are not navigating this alone.
Sanctuary by SoulFriends is designed with intention around what the research actually shows creates lasting friendship: shared live experience, real conversation, consistent contact, and the kind of intimate community where genuine relationships have room to form.
This is not a program you complete and leave. It is a room you grow inside.
JOIN SANCTUARYSanctuary meets for one 90-minute gathering per month at 2:30pm (PST)
Upcoming Dates
Aug 29, Sept 26, Oct 24, Nov 21, & Dec 19
join sanctuaryWHAT YOU RECEIVE.
Founders Monthly
 $44/month, recurringÂ
 REGULARLY $88/MONTHÂ
Monthly Gathering — your monthly anchor, monthly, live on Zoom, 90 minutes, Saturdays at 2:30pm PST / Sundays in Australia
Includes:
- Full session recordings in your member portal
- Global SoulFriends® WhatsApp community
- Growing practice and resource Library
- Welcome voice note from the SoulFriends Founding Circle within your first two weeks
Cancel anytime, one click, in your member portal
No phone call required.
Founders Annual
 $444/year, one paymentÂ
 REGULARLY $847/YEARÂ
Everything in monthly, plus:Â
- SoulFriends Studio — weekly live, 60 minute breathwork sessions, included for your founding year
- Sanctuary Ritual Tool Kit — fun and meaningful accoutrements for the journey, mailed to you upon joining
- Welcome Session — personal intro chat with the SoulFriends Founding Circle within your first month
- SoulFriend Matchmaker — Join an intimate pod of women designed for depth, real connection, and the conditions that friendship science shows actually produce lasting bonds
- Founders Rate locked for the life of your membership
Cancel anytime, one click, in your member portal
Non-refundable, transferable to another member.
Become a Founding SoulFriend
Join Now!YOU KNOW THE FEELING.
You have built a big, beautiful life. And lately, even simple decisions feel heavier than they should.
By the time a woman arrives here, she has been shaped for decades by systems that were never built for her. Social conditioning that taught her to shrink her needs and measure her worth by what she produces. Financial narratives that kept her dependent or quietly guilty about wanting more. Relational patterns that rewarded her for giving everything and made receiving feel indulgent. The accumulated weight of being the person everyone has needed for so long that she has lost the thread back to what she actually wants.
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This is not a personal failing. This is what happens when you have been holding a full life, inside a world that was not designed for you, without a space to hear yourself inside it.
Most women have been navigating this alone with a quiet sense that something essential is missing.
So we built a space for it.
EXHALE.
You have been working very hard to hold it all together.
The identity. The impression. The quiet pressure to show up prepared, polished, ready. The exhausting project of building a life impressive enough for standards you never actually agreed to.
Here, you can put it down.
No one here needs you to be impressive. No one in this room will ask what you do or how many people follow you. You can arrive exactly as you are. A woman with something real to say, still finding her way, ready to stop performing and just be.
Sanctuary is a space you return to. A place to step out of the noise and hear your own internal knowing again. To make the decisions you have been circling, trust what you already know, and move into the next era of your life with clarity and conviction.
Most women feel it within the first gathering.
And from that place, everything begins to move.
WHAT CHANGES.
The changes that come from this work may look subtle. They are transformative.
When you reorganize your authority to come from inside rather than from external validation, everything shifts.
You start hearing yourself again.
Not because someone gives you the answers. Because the noise quiets enough for your own clarity to return. You leave each gathering knowing your next move. Not a list. One clear thing that is yours.
You stop performing who you have been.
And begin moving into who you actually are. The next era of your life, with the clarity, the relationships, and the internal authority to design it entirely on your own terms.
Your relationship with money shifts.
Not through a strategy handed to you. Through a deepening relationship with yourself. Sanctuary opens a different conversation about prosperity — what it means to become a wise steward of your own financial life, on your own terms, regardless of your partnership status or business stage.
The relationships you build here are unlike anything you have had before.
Not because they are perfect. Because they are real. Women who have lived a life and have stories to tell. Who will let you put down your guard and your titles. The kind of relationships that research consistently shows extend your life.
SANCTUARY IS LIVE AND RELATIONAL.
Each gathering is recorded so you never miss the content. The real work of Sanctuary happens live, in the room, in real time with the women who show up. That depth is not available on replay. We encourage you to be there.
You can join at any point. Each gathering stands fully on its own. What builds over time is not the content. It is you, and the relationships you form inside this room.
For those moving through the full year, here is what the arc looks like:
You join the room.
You are welcomed. You are where you are meant to be.Â
You begin to hear.
Something you could not access before starts to come through.
 It begins to clarify.
Your insights resonate and you feel clear.Â
Around your three-month mark.
You are matched into your SoulFriend pod. The community becomes more intimate. The relationships deepen
You begin to move.
Clarity shows up in your actual life. Something that has been still starts to shift.
The path illuminates.
You can see how far you have come. You can see where you are headed.
You become part of what makes this room what it is.
You are here not only to receive but to contribute and expand. You are in awe of the women around you. You become the frequency that new members walk into.
WHO THIS IS FOR.
Sanctuary is for the woman who is ready for this next era to be different.
She may be at the height of her career or quietly stepping away from it. She may be building something new or simply building a life that is more fully hers. She may know exactly what she wants or be in the process of remembering. She belongs here regardless.
She is done navigating this without her people. She wants relationships that meet her at depth. She is ready to stop performing clarity and start accessing it. She can feel there is a version of herself underneath all the conditioning that she has not fully met yet.
She is not broken. She is not behind. She is awake enough to feel the gap and ready to do something about it.
We believe the most extraordinary force in the world is a woman who is done performing and ready to remember. Imagine when we are in the same room.
JOIN SANCTUARY"What a blessing to be part of a community that cultivated deep connection, reflection, and real healing."
Each gathering felt grounding and nourishing. This showed me how powerful it is to gather with others in shared intention and trust."
— Melissa
"It's a beautiful and comfortable space with inspiring women where you are allowed to be completely yourself with no judgement."
A place of diving deeper into authenticity of your own life, slow down and remember what is truly important."
— Kristin
"I would still be feeling like I was an inconvenience. I would be reluctant to take up space."
"I have been in masterminds. I have been in coaching programs. This is different. No one is trying to fix me."
— Hannah
IFYKYK.
Sanctuary is not for everyone.
It is for the woman who is done navigating this next era without her people. Who knows something is shifting and wants a room that meets her there. Who is ready to stop performing the next era of her life and start living it.
You are not behind. You are in between.
And you are ready.
JOIN SANCTUARYFAQ
When do gatherings happen?
Sanctuary gathers monthly on selected Saturdays at 2:30pm PST. Upcoming 2026 dates: August 29, September 26, October 24, November 21, December 19. For Australia, this is Sunday morning AEST. All sessions are recorded and available in your member portal. We strongly encourage live attendance!Â
What if I join and others have been here longer?
Each gathering stands on its own. You do not need to have been here from the beginning to belong here now. New members are welcomed every month.
Do I need to be building a business or have a specific goal?
No. Sanctuary is for the woman who is ready for this era of her life to feel different. She may or may not be building something. She belongs here regardless.
What is the difference between monthly and annual?
Monthly members attend the live gathering, participate in the WhatsApp community, and access the session archive. Annual members additionally receive weekly live breathwork in Studio for their founding year, the Sanctuary Ritual Tool Kit, a personal intro session, and SoulFriend Matchmaking around their three-month mark.
What is SoulFriend Matchmaking?
Annual members are matched into an intimate pod of women around their three-month mark. Designed for depth, real connection, and the kind of relationships that last well beyond the membership.
What makes Sanctuary different from other online communities or membership programs?
Most online communities are built around content. You show up, receive, and leave. The relationship is between you and the platform, not between you and the other women in the room.
Sanctuary is built around a specific belief rooted in decades of research: the quality of your relationships is the greatest predictor of how long and how well you live. Harvard's eighty-year longevity study confirms it. Friendship formation science adds a practical dimension, genuine close friendships require significant investment of shared time and real experience. Most online communities are not designed to produce that.
Everything in Sanctuary is. Monthly live gatherings where you say something true rather than something polished. Weekly breathwork together in Studio. A WhatsApp community that continues between sessions. Personal intro calls so someone genuinely knows who you are before you walk into your first gathering. And SoulFriend Matchmaking from your third month — intimate pods where the investment of time and experience concentrates fast enough for real friendship to form.
We also know from the research that in-person contact deepens online relationships significantly. This is why Summer Camp exists, not as a standalone event, but as an accelerator for relationships that began in Sanctuary.
We are not building a content platform with a community layer. We are building the conditions for lifelong friendship. Those are different things.
What is the Ritual Tool Kit?
A physical welcome package mailed to annual members within two weeks of joining. Fun and meaningful accoutrements for the journey.
Can I cancel?
Monthly members cancel anytime, one click, in their member portal. No phone call required. Annual memberships are non-refundable but transferable to another member.
What about in-person experiences?
Summer Camp and retreats are where the Sanctuary community steps into the same room. Details at soulfriends.community/summer-camp.
What about in-person experiences?
Summer Camp and retreats are where the Sanctuary community steps into the same room. Details at soulfriends.community/summer-camp.
You have friends. But not like this.
The women you are looking for are already here.
THE RIGHT ROOM CHANGES EVERYTHING.
Not because someone tells you what to do. But because in the right room, you finally remember what you already know.